How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 14:09
What I need from you?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
What happens when you need emergency surgery in countries with universal healthcare vs the US?
Making more friends is a goal.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Can you explain the difference between “mi piace” and “mi piacciono” in Italian?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
What's the hardest part about marriage that no one ever talks about?
Do not set goals—set systems.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
How do I convince flat earthers that the earth is round?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Hangs out with loser friends.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
What is one small habit that has transformed your life in unexpected ways?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
What would happen if the Earth stopped spinning for one minute?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Is it ethical for same-sex couples to raise children?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Why am I so afraid that gun owners have set traps to kill me outside my house or my car?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Ask yourself:
Which is the worst Bollywood movie you have ever seen and why?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
How do you know when your skirt is too short?
Procrastinates a lot.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Does not procrastinate.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
That's it for today.